Obituary-Trefflia “Treff” Paul Alexander

Trefflia “Treff” Paul Alexander, age 39, entered into rest on Saturday, August 27, 2022, at the Salina Regional Health Center, Salina, Kansas. He was born on April 9, 1983 in Concordia, Kansas to Dennis and Patricia (Tate) Alexander.

Treff was a 2001 graduate of Miltonvale High School, Miltonvale, Kansas.  He earned his LPN degree from NCKAVTS Beloit Campus, Beloit, Kansas and later graduated from Cloud County Community College with his RN degree.

On February 9, 2008 he married Brynn Cairns in Concordia, Kansas.  To this union five children were born, Justice, Russell, Isabelle, Scarlett, and Asher.  They later divorced.

Treff worked as a RN at the Mount Joseph Senior Village in Concordia.

He was a member of the St. Mary’s Catholic Church, Clifton, Kansas.

Treff’s hobbies include all kinds of comics, Magic cards and most of all spending time with his children attending all their activities and sporting events.

Survivors include his five children, Justice, Russell, Isabelle, Scarlett, and Asher Alexander, and the kid’s mother, Brynn Alexander, all of Concordia, KS; mother and stepfather, Patricia and Sylvester Bosserman, Junction City, KS; father and step-mother, Dennis and Carol Alexander, Clifton, KS; grandmother, Rita Alexander, Clifton, KS; sister, Becky Lapolice, Honolulu, HI; brother, Alan (Sonia) Lapolice, San Francisco, CA; sister, Cindy Bell (David), La Crescenta, CA;  sister, Jody Lapolice, Concordia, KS; sister, Denise Alexander, Clyde, KS; brother, Brett Alexander, Lee Summitt, MO; many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Clinton and Phyllis Tate and paternal grandfather, Lawrence “Bus” Alexander.

Cremation has taken place and a Celebration of Life service will be held on, Thursday, September 8, 2022 at 10:30 a.m. in the Chaput-Buoy Funeral Home, Concordia, Kansas with Fr. Steven Heina officiating. Burial of cremains will take place in the Pleasant Hill Cemetery, Concordia, Kansas.  Friends may sign the register book from 1-8 pm on Wednesday, Sept. 7, 2022 with the family greeting friends from 6-8 pm, all at the funeral home.

Memorial contributions may be given to the Cloud County Health Center in care of Chaput-Buoy Funeral Home, PO Box 606, Concordia, KS 66901.  For online condolences please visit,

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